Love rat

So we're back to not responding to any texts I send and if I have the pattern right this carries on till he wants sex. Then he texts me or alternatively after a few days I keep texting him and he gets turned on enough to respond and so we start again.

The thing is now I recognise the pattern do I want to continue with it? I do have some power to change if I want. Whats my normal pattern? Keep texting till I get fed up and give up and then wait alternatively wait a few days and then start texting as if nothing happened. Either way it seems on his terms which pisses me off slightly and makes me feel like he is using me like a whore.

I could try just waiting and then make him woo me again. Be unavailable the first time rather than responding the first time. I suppose there is a worry that he won't bother trying but then do you want someone who really cares so little for you?

Its not and never will be a true love thing but I just would like a little consideration and politeness. Then again how can I expect anything of someone who cheats on the mother of his children, who sends love texts while laying in bed with another woman? He is a rat and no mistake.

Right will not text or contact him and be unavailable the time he contacts me. When I do next speak to him I am going to ask him if this no contact stuff is a black cultural thing and I bet you any money you like he will say yes...and I'll bloody cut his balls off and say no its not its just your arrogance and rudeness. lol